some thots..

PH is getting more n more naughty... it's getting more n more difficult to handle him.. this boy has a mind of his own n simply refuse to follow instructions.. he will always has his own say in things and want things done in his own way... hai....

when he throws a tantrum and cries, i will usually ignore him.. he will 'beg' me to sayang him by saying '妈妈 sayang 我, 妈妈 sayang 我, 妈妈 sayang 我...' of coz i will refuse to and tell him to stop crying before i will talk to him.. he knows i'm the firm one and usually stick to my words.. so he will usually try to calm himself down.. but, he will usually request me to give him tissue to wipe his tears.. the good thing is tt once i give him the tissue, he will stop his sobbing..

however, when i talk to him that he's wrong to throw tantrum etc, he will still firmly reply tt he's not in the wrong.. simply not willing to repent...

i'm not sure if i'm thinking too much into the meaning behind his action.. requesting for tissue fr me is his way of telling me that he is willing to relent and stop his crying.. however, the action of me giving him the tissue is also a sign to him tt i'm giving in to his crying.. meaning tt he actually has the upper hand..

so, usually, when i hand over the tissue to him, i will still sound really stern (to show tt i'm not giving in to him).. of coz, i will not wipe off his tears for him too..

is a 2 year old really capable of such complicated implication of actions? or am i simply thinking too much into it? am i too stern to him? wondering how i can discipline him... i dun want to end up with a spolit kid.. :P

btw, this boy already know who he can yang ow to.. he won't come to me.. he will go to his papa coz papa will give in to him usually... i'm the discipline master in the family.. i'm the bad bad guy... :P this feel so weird.. i thot mommies are the soft hearted ones tt's y there this saying 慈母多败儿....

well, i'm the 严母... hahahaha...... :P